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con·sent | kənˈsent |
Dictionary definitions:
noun
permission for something to happen or agreement to do something: no fantasy about Wyoh may be shared with Wyoh without her consent.
verb [no object]
give permission for something to happen: she consented to join the orgy as long as condoms and dental dams were a given.
• agree to do something: he had consented to listen to her sex story.
ORIGIN
Middle English: from Old French consente (noun), consentir (verb), from Latin consentire, from con- ‘together’ + sentire ‘feel’.
Dossie Easton & Janet W. Hardy's definition (authors of The Ethical Slut):
an active collaboration for the benefit, well-being and pleasure of all persons concerned.
JANUARY 2021 THEMES-OF-THE-WEEK:
Suggested Reading: Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski
JAN 3-9: Your Anatomy
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When and how do you feel like you finally understood your sexual anatomy?
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How did you know?
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If you're not totally sure if you understand them yet, what do you still wonder about?
JAN 10-16: Arousal, Desire, Turn-Ons, Turn-Offs
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What patterns do you notice about when you feel turned on or turned off?
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Which category do you leant towards: hyper horny, steady & happy, long-term turned off, I'm just not feeling it but I wish I were? Or something else in that vein?
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What's your experience with your own arousal been like?
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How do you feel about it?
JAN 17-23: Emotions and Orgasms
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Do you ever clock any specific emotions related to orgasms?
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Do you cry? Get mad? See stars or cool patterns? Squirt a ton? Cum like a whisper? Or a storm?
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Tell us about your orgasms, what they feel like, and how you feel about them, and anything else personally orgasmic you can think of.
JAN 24-30: Sexy Massage Stories
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Are massages one of your go-to moves?
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Do you have a history of (professional??) happy endings?
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Have you and your partner ever done a massage role play?
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Does your Top or bottom use massage as part of their worship?
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What kinds of massage do you like? Do you ask or offer massages to your partner as often as you'd like?
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Do you have any amazing prostate massage insights?
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Why do you think buttholes get "prostate massages" and vaginas get "fingerings"?
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Any other massage thoughts?