INTRO

rate yourself on a sexual shame-o-meter (10 high / 0 low) when and why has it squiggled?

what is sexy?

what's your sex life like right now?

what do you love about your sex life like right now?

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how much do you and your partner(s) talk about sex?

what are your health & safety practices? testing, barriers, preferences, boundaries, conversation with partners etc.

what helps you feel connected to a lover?

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[PRO] what exactly is your job like? what do you love about it?

[PRO] how does your work help people connect?

 

LEARNINGS

How did you learn about love, sex, connection and pleasure growing up?

[PRO] what's your professional origin story?

[PRO] what’s your favorite thing to teach others about love/sex/connection, and how did you learn about it?

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Take us through your personal timeline of formative intimate experiences:

when do you remember becoming aware of sex?

did you get a sex talk? sex ed? consent ed?

how did the culture, media, family values and friendships you grew up with influence your formative relationship to sex?

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solo play: discovery and evolution

partnered play: meaningful “firsts” and the experiences that led you to where you are now

when do you feel like you started to understand your own sexuality?

how do sex and love affect each other in your life?

 

LOVES

what do you love about sex?

solo play?

giving and receiving: hands & holes & how?

body sensations?

kinks?

fetishes?

fantasies?

turn-ons? 

locations?

toys?

nudes?

porn habits?

sex dreams?

what are your orgasms like?

what kind of lover are you?

other stand-out stories? 

[PRO] what are some favorite highlights of your work?

 

(CO)CREATION

what are you excited to explore next?

if you suddenly had an unlimited budget to build your own personal pleasure palace, what would it be like?

what do we need to create a sexier, more connected and loving world?

if you could go back in time and give younger-you a piece of sex-related advice, what age(s) would you pick and what would you say?