Tell me sex stories!
I'm so glad you're here.
If you'd like to share, I'd like to hear your sex stories.
BUT BE WARNED:
I am looking for guests who want to talk about sex.
Unless they give context for your sex stories. I just want to make sure we get to the sex part.
I'd like as many details as you can possibly articulate, please.
The type of details you'd like to give to your lover.
(Or like, maybe the type of details you'd want to give to a lover who was 100% brand new to sex, and this is your very last chance to have sex because you're on death row, wrongly accused obviously, this is your last shot, and you are very horny. LOTTA detail)
I'd also like details on sexy things that felt bad, no matter how small or large; and while you are welcome to talk about trauma, I will remind you that I'm not a therapist, I'll just be holding space for conversation.
(Looking for a therapist? I found mine at The Wright Institute – it's sliding-scale and psychotherapy-based)
Get something off your chest.
Or share sexual deal-breakers.
Or random places you've done it. Or places you dream of. Please, share all your deepest fantasies. Tell us about your kinks.
Let's talk about it.
If you're feeling shy, think about this:
Or helps a younger someone-like-you make a more informed choice?
I'm just saying.
It's good karma.
#nakedbringsmejoy, and I want to invite as many people as possible to share that joy.
What i'm looking for:
Enjoying your nakedness.
Photos where you are easily identifiable (i.e. anything with face, unique birthmarks or freckle patterns) will not be shared without your express permission.
Friends & partners are welcome (but please discuss with me ahead of time).
What i'm NOT looking for:
Models who demand photoshop.
While the Sex Stories Podcast does explicitly revolve around sex, my idea around the accompanying instagram is aimed at capturing the joy that can happen when one is naked, so the images themselves don't need to push the idea of sex.
If you wanna get sexy during your shoot, though, I will happily follow along (again, depending on what you have in mind, please discuss ahead of time so I'm prepared).
Photos from the shoot will be shared with you within two weeks of your shoot to use as you will (just give photo credit, please).
If you don't feel like you're a model, perfect. Consider it practice. I like all the pieces of you, every wrinkle, bulge, fold, mole, and patch of hair. And if you happen to be a professional model, you're perfect, too. I want all types.
I don't need you to be comfortable with being naked as long as you're open to being uncomfortable.
We won't have time to cover everything here, but use this to spark your imagination and help think about experiences or broader thoughts on sex you'd like to share, and we'll go from there.
Introduce yourself in as much detail as feels comfortable. Letting listeners know the varied backgrounds of guests is helpful.
Name (real or chosen)
Age / generation
Orientation / Identity
Background -- where you’re from / culture / religion / values around sex
Age you discovered masturbation
Age you first had sex w another person (also: how do you define it?)
If you had to rate yourself on a sexual shame-o-meter, with 1 (shameless!) to 10 (so full of shame), where do you think fall?
What’s your current relationship with sex?
Do you talk about sex with partners ahead of time? Protection?
What are your earliest memories/feelings around sex? Blow jobs Cunnilingus?
Did you get a sex talk?
What do you remember about sex ed?
How do you communicate around sex? With family? With friends? With partners? Do you find it easy / difficult and why?
What gets you off? THE MORE SPECIFIC THE BETTER.
Kinks? Can you elaborate on early conversations w partners around kink?
First times: kissing, sex, blow jobs?
Current thoughts on blowjobs? Cunnilingus? Butt stuff?
Multiple partners at the same time? If not, would you consider it? Why? What do you / would you need to feel safe/excited in a group sex situation??
Best / worst / weirdest: sex, blowjobs, cunnilingus, butt stuff? Horror stories? Delicious stories?
When do you feel most in touch with your body?
Body hair preferences (for yourself or partners)?
Future hopes/goals/dreams for your sex life?
If you could go back and give a younger version of yourself sex advice, what age(s) would you pick and what would you say?
Share a fantasy.
Ask me a sex question!